Imposter Syndrome hits us all and it hurts us all. I hear over and over from my friends, and coaching clients, that they feel like they are the only ones in their circle who have no idea what they are doing with their lives. They are the only ones who are lost. The only ones who are searching. The only …
A good friend of mine was telling me a story they heard from an OkCupid date. The story was about the girl’s father. This man was taking early retirement. He had dreamed of retiring for a while now and he was finally getting close to that magic number of 55 years of age. He counted down the weeks: 20 weeks …
One of the main reasons my INTJ sister and I fight is because she doesn’t understand that I see the world in extreme shades of gray. Whereas for her the world is more a case of black and white, with a little bit of gray somewhere in there, sometimes. Decisions are easier for her, and not so much for me.
One of the magnificent things about having a YouTube channel about INFJs is many non-INFJs message me asking questions about their beloved INFJs and about a potential doorslam. This really makes me ecstatic. I know how hard it can be for an INFJ, one of the introverted Myers-Briggs personality types, to be in a relationship, especially a romantic one. So, …
Mood swings suck, don’t they?? I am visiting my family at the moment in Toronto, Canada. Even though I absolutely adore them to death, I have realized that if I spend too much time with them, I start feeling an immense amount of rage and resentment towards them without a break. It’s wholly without reason, and I know it is …
I had just come back from Thailand – it had been a dream trip. My ideal life seemed to be at hand. The trip had been absolutely epic. I had spent 3 weeks sitting by the ocean, under the sun, or the stars, contemplating the surf. No thoughts ran through my mind. I was calm, relaxed, and happy. I hadn’t …
Lots of people tell me every day on my vlog and on the streets (after they find out about my blog), that they want to be writers. I tell every one of those individuals – everyone is a writer at heart, but when it comes down to it, very few of us actually take pen to paper and get to …
The present moment, if you think about it, is the only time there is. No matter what time it is, it is always now. – Marianne Williamson
Are you playing small? Suffering is due to our disconnection with the inner soul. Meditation is establishing that connection. – Amit Ray