I feel like all of my problems would disappear if I started focusing on the answers that I find within myself, rather than the ones that appear from the outside. Or are forced to appear from the outside. Why do we look for answers outside ourselves?
Do You See 8 Sides to Everything? – INFJs Do
One of the main reasons my INTJ sister and I fight is because she doesn’t understand that I see the world in extreme shades of gray. Whereas for her the world is more a case of black and white, with a little bit of gray somewhere in there, sometimes. Decisions are easier for her, and not so much for me.
Don’t Look Outside, It’s All within You
Your competition isn’t other people. Your competition is your procrastination. Ego. The unhealthy food you are consuming, the knowledge you neglect. The negative behavior you are nurturing & your lack of creativity. Compete against that. – Jade Jackson WSBT.
Having An Internal Point Of Reference Makes Decision Making Easier
This story will illustrate an internal point of reference. I visited my friend, Zita, recently at a tiny beach town in Mexico, called Sayulita. She was chatting at dinner about her recent trip to Las Vegas. And how when she told her friend about the trip, the friend said immediately, “You are so lucky you are in party central.” My …

[Ep 79] Do You Know What Your Values Are?
In this episode, I’ll be chatting with you about your values and how we all should figure out our values that will then help guide our life choices and paths.

[Ep 53] Create a Jealousy Map to Guide Your Decisions
In this episode, I’ll be chatting about using jealousy as a guidepost to our heart’s desires, rather than an emotion to be avoided. I call these Jealousy Maps. Normally, jealousy is used in a negative light. We believe that if we feel jealousy then we are horrible human beings, who are imperfect, and that, we should never ever feel jealousy …