One of the magnificent things about having a YouTube channel about INFJs is many non-INFJs message me asking questions about their beloved INFJs and about a potential doorslam. This really makes me ecstatic. I know how hard it can be for an INFJ, one of the introverted Myers-Briggs personality types, to be in a relationship, especially a romantic one. So, …
In this episode, I’ll be talking about the classic 80/20 rule in relationships by Pareto.
The interesting thing about the cognitive bias called the False consensus effect, is that even though I know that I’m biased towards my own opinions, I still think I am not. “Everyone else is biased, but I’m not,” I say.
In this episode, I’ll be chatting about how showing our vulnerability helps us gain stronger connections. I used to be watching and waiting for other people to open themselves first, before I would allow them to see my weaknesses, my vulnerability. But I realized that I was wasting strong, beautiful, meaningful connections, simply by refusing to put myself out there. …
A few years back, I was rudderless. I had no direction. I went to university and got my Master’s degree only because everyone else I knew was doing that. I bought a condo because it seemed like everyone else was as well. I hadn’t discovered consistency matters yet.