One of the magnificent things about having a YouTube channel about INFJs is many non-INFJs message me asking questions about their beloved INFJs and about a potential doorslam. This really makes me ecstatic. I know how hard it can be for an INFJ, one of the introverted Myers-Briggs personality types, to be in a relationship, especially a romantic one. So, I take these questions as an opportunity to help my fellow INFJs find long-lasting love. Time after time, INTJs, INFPs,…
In this episode, Iβll be talking about the classic 80/20 rule in relationships by Pareto. The 80/20 rule means that 80 percent of your outcomes come from 20 percent of your inputs. This rule applies to almost everything in life, be it relationships, learning, money, work, or happiness. We see many different people running around town who appear to be busy. But most of these people tend to accomplish very little. Why? Because we waste time on tasks that our…
In this episode, Iβll be chatting about how showing our vulnerability helps us gain stronger connections. I used to be watching and waiting for other people to open themselves first, before I would allow them to see my weaknesses, my vulnerability. But I realized that I was wasting strong, beautiful, meaningful connections, simply by refusing to put myself out there. I want to share with you guys how, and why, I now throw myself in the deep and open myself…
A few years back, I was rudderless. I had no direction. I went to university and got my Master’s degree only because everyone else I knew was doing that. I bought a condo because it seemed like everyone else was as well. I worked full-time in a 9-5 job because everyone else was doing that. I was living some one else’s life, because I was too lazy to think for myself. I was also extremely lazy. I could have stayed…
